When I hit a wall in my relationships with friends, the first tendency is to get confused and upset. But I don't like to sit and stew and let things get out of hand. If I can't say what's bothering me directly to my friends, I try to see things from their point of view. Yet, that's not my job to do. As my brain takes me through various variables of the possible issue, my heart looks for ways to let go.
Let go, because my friends are not obliged to me and getting upset doesn't solve anything. Let go because in every moment there is an opportunity to learn smth new.
The easiest way to let go is to treat the situation with gratitude. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. Thank you for having a chance to do things differently. Thank you for opening up a road to other thoughts, feelings and options.
Let go because you never know what wonderful surprise might await for you as a result of it!
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